Frustrations...

I promise all of my posts will not be negative but things have just been a little rough around here lately and I am REALLY hoping things start looking up.
First off, for the past month pretty much, Jeff and I have been sick. I had the flu one week, Jeff's cold the next week and a half to two weeks, then I had a gallbladder attack and a bladder infection this past week. Holy cow can I say how miserable that has been?? Talk about PAIN! The dr wants me to go and do the test where they inject the dye into you and see if your gallbladder is working correctly and to be honest I sure hope that's what it is, only because I will have an answer as to what has been wrong with my stomach for so long. I cant lose weight, I have been SO bloated especially this last month that I look pregnant (which I'm not) and its extremely frustrating! I have been so sick that I haven't been able to work out as much and I just haven't had the energy at all and it sucks! So with that I have gained weight and I feel horrible! For the longest time I had been working out and feeling so good about myself and then the last six months I feel everything has just been taking steps backwards and all of my hardwork is down the drain and I'm getting back to the fat old me and that is really hard to see. I am and have tried everything to lose weight from getting a personal trainer working out six days a week harder than I ever worked out sometimes even twice a day, to see no results. I saw a nutritionist, tried my own things and nothing has helped me. I am so frustrated and sick of not feeling like myself that I really am willing to do anything!! Enough of this topic,I could go on forever...
Secondly, we have been trying to sell our townhouse for quite a while now and have had no luck whatsoever. We have shown our house multiple times And everyone says they love it, yet we're still in it!! We have recently lowered our asking price and haven't even shown it once... We just want our own place, somewhere to call OURS, not feeling like its just Jeff's. We also have been trying to sell my car to get something new to both of us and have had no luck. It's just really frustrating because we are both ready for something new and to start a new chapter in our lives but we just can't quite get there and I'm having a really hard time with this!!